Dating a narcissistic sociopath
Empathy and compassion is what causes you to act lovingly, to consider his needs and emotions before yours even when it’s hard, and to do everything in your power to make the connection right. So, when you think he feels love like you do, what he actually feels is a sense of control or power, or attachment to domestic or financial security, looking good, or a cover. You can’t fathom that your partner was not who you thought he was all this time.
This person who supposedly has loved you has hurt you more than anyone else ever has.
He has felt comfortable hurting or taking advantage of you, lying and deceiving you for perhaps many years – many years that now seem to have gone up in smoke.
Many years that you believed you were investing your love in a life together.
This is because you are willing to take responsibility in the relationship, as a responsible partner would, and he is counting on this.
Another MO of the destructive partner is to act like a victim.
In a healthy relationship, safety and compassion does reciprocally help heal childhood wounds.
He is counting on your trusting nature to do just that.Perhaps his greatest deceit of all was to encourage you to believe that you were loved. There’s a good reason for this: a sociopath has a brain significantly different from yours or mine.Remember a sociopath and a psychopath are from the same psyche classification: Antisocial Psychopath. They’re consistent with all their prey whether in pursuit for ten days or we’re captive for ten years or 30 years – it’s the same for each of us from the first , or sociopaths.They have the same areas of brain abnormality – a psychopath’s has higher percentages of abnormal in regions of the brain and gets pleasure from other’s pain. And lately as “having” antisocial personality disorder.